12 ways to identify a person's psychology and personality

Here is a quick guide of really small things that tell a lot about a person:

1. Notice how they argue with others, especially their loved ones. Good people fight to solve problems, not to make others feel like the bad guy.
2. Notice how they handle any sort of rejection. Are they comfortable with hearing the word no? Do they get angry and think themselves more important than others, or do they accept the fact that they can’t have everything and please everyone?
3. Look out for how often they get angry or change their emotions drastically. This will tell you a lot about whether the person is emotionally stable and if you should deal with them.
4. Pay attention how fast people respond to questions. This can give you an idea if they are an introvert who take time to gather their thoughts, or an extrovert, who almost think out loud and love to talk.
5. See how they react to a change of plans! It shows whether they’re someone who consider the world to be in a constant state of flux, and hate constrictions, or if they’re someone who’s rigid, who decide on a clear plan of action and follow through on every step.
6. See how they handle blame. You can tell a lot about a person by how they handle blame; do they assign it to others or accept it and take responsibility for their mistakes.
   
7. Notice how they talk about the less fortunate. People with zero empathy will never even mention the disadvantaged, the homeless, etc. You can also notice how they TREAT these people whenever they meet them, but that’s not a small and subtle thing.
8. Notice if their main focus is on the past, present, or future in conversations. This will show you a person’s way of thinking, and whether they’re nostalgic or full of regret, if they’re focused on the present, or worry about the future.
9. Notice if they think how their decisions will affect others, or if they only think about how they’ll be affected. This can also tell you a lot about how a person thinks - whether they’re more empathetic and consider others in their decision-making, or if they’re more selfish and don’t really care what others think.
10. Notice if they trash-talk or gossip about other people. They’ll probably do this to you when you’re not around.
11. Notice if they hang around other people for perks or for company. For example, when inviting someone somewhere, do they say “Let’s invite that guy because he’ll bring drinks”, or “Let’s invite him because he’s fun!”. Do they meet that person just to enjoy his company, or are they more interested in the gains that they can get from him; either money gains, connections, etc.
12. And lastly but most importantly, notice how the vibe changes when they walk into the room! Does the room suddenly seem quiet? Maybe lighter and happier? It’s basically how their presence affects other people around them.

Originally from Quora

You Are A [Winner/Loser]

Lie, just for the sake of it. Screw other peoples' lives. Play with their circumstances, insecurities and misfortunes. Make their lives a living hell. Make them wish death. Make them feel little and worthless. Make them suffer in misery. Care about no one. Gods are on your side: you have been blessed with intelligence and power. Worry no consequence. You know you cannot ever be questioned. Let the world watch and condemn you. Bribe them. Bribe them with promises and enlighten them on the pleasure of watching others suffer. Get them off your back. Enjoy.

The oppressed, your victim somehow escapes your crushing and proves you wrong in front of the world.

Pretend sick. Dramatize the situation. Never be sorry, that'd weaken you. Make the most out of the scene. Save yourself from being the wrong one; you can never be wrong, Gods know you.  Fake a heart disease, nervous breakdown or cancer for that matter. Get the attention; get the good wishes.
CONGRATULATIONS! You have landed to the safe zone. You are a winner!

But then suddenly your (long lost) conscious awakes from decades of forced coma. It stands right in front of you. Arms crossed on the chest. Forehead creased. Ready to take on you. May it never let you live. May it keeps bringing back your past. May it makes you wish you were dead every time you try to give that 'victory smile' you were always famous for. May it destroy you every second of your miserable life.

And it takes away your wish to live because your tormented victims are smiling even after all the anguish and ordeal you put them through. You are a loser. Yes, you are!

*insert some catchy title here*

Hey fellas! I know I am lazybones and all but, in complete honesty, I've been caught up with life and "stuff" for a while. I started this blog for myself and intended to update it frequently but unfortunately I could not give it due amount of time and attention. Can't say I am not writing lately, I am! For the past few months I have been spending a huge chunk of my time writing. Most of it is personal writings [that is, me talking to myself mostly] and even if I sit and try to write something with the intention of publishing on the current affairs or anything for that matter I find myself being too dark, too lame too boring, too vague or too personal. My blog is filled with drafts that are unfinished writings waiting to get done and published. I did not mean to ignore the blog or writings but the fear of judgement maybe or probably the fact that they are not what I want them to be yet. So yes, I will try to keep this blog alive but that is not a promise because most of the times I do not find the right mood to do the trouble of 'pretending' nice and goody good. HAHA. Bye!
Laziness level: not being able to come up with a title :P

Women Empowerment: A Step Towards Better Tomorrow

Women, it seems, are still being imprisoned in role definitions that obscure and distort the scope of who we are. Our creative life expectancy is only as long as our sexual value. Women remain fetishist for the things that don’t last- smooth skin, firm shape, while men are fetishist for the things that do- wealth, status, know-how. It has been said that the struggle for women is to be perceived as human in a world that allows them merely to be female. Let’s work for a future where the characters we portray, whatever their age, are allowed the full scope of their humanity.
Most daughters choose to be loved instead of empowered because there is an ominous sense that being fully actualized and empowered may cause a grave loss of love from important people in their lives, specifically their mothers. So women stay small and unfulfilled, unconsciously passing the mother wound to the next generation. As a woman, there is a vague but powerful sense that your empowerment will injure your relationships. And women are taught to value relationships over everything else. We cling to the crumbs of our relationships, while our souls may be deeply longing for the fulfillment of our potential. But the truth is that our relationships alone can never adequately substitute for the hunger to live our lives fully.

Whatever floats my boat

I shouldn't be up at this wee hour. My brain should be closed shut. I should be unable to think straight but my mind is working at the speed of an accelerated Photon. Actually to find out the value of this speed is quite technical so lets just say it is REAL FAST!
I have not published anything lately but that does not mean i am not writing; i am. It's just that my writing are weird and personal and dark and creepy. Not the best place to live in lately, my mind lol.
I took the courage to start this blog but i guess i am failing it. I find it hard to write something good enough. It is either too personal, too dark, too out-of-the-point, too vague, too technical or too lame-funny. Here is a funny confession though, i feel totally embarrassed to be an ex-fan of the TWILIGHT SAGA. There i said it, can sleep in peace now. Hopefully :P

ACETIC ACID

So I've been avoiding indulging myself into serious pondering lately but i have this awesome (^_^) talent of relating things (and people, khe khe :P) so I'm here to amaze you with a relationship i recently deduced. :D

Some people are like Acetic Acid. No seriously, they are. Let's see now, a quick revision on high school chemistry, eh? I know i am boring :P
ANYWAY!

• Belongs to organic family, has a OOH group.
  Now these people could simply make you cry. They possess the charm and charisma to make anyone fall into the trap. But, mind you, all of their appearance is purely fake.

• Resembles water in all aspects ; colourless odourless liquid.
  Ahh, WATER! The most exceptional gift of mother nature . A touchstone of sinlessness. An example of simplicity and purity . See they would appear as clear as transparent crystal, which you could look through. The most beautiful being.

• It has a distinctive taste and pungent smell.
  But once you get to have a taste of them, they would jag your tongue and throat with their sharpness. The saddest part is getting the blisters after the taste. The burns would take a long time to heal and meanwhile you won't be able to savour any other delights of life.

• Melting and boiling point very close to water.Solidifies to a crystalline mass resembling ice.
  Like I said they would heat up and cool down as the heavenly liquid. Act, in all ways, identical to water. They would pretend sinless even in extreme cases, making it very hard-almost impossible-to identify.

See, anyone of us can get into such an inevitable situation. But since we cannot tell by the look of these people, hence fall into their trap. The trick here is not falling but to stand again after the descent; healing of acetic acid burns..

Metaphorically speaking. You start the journey from the wrist, the road separates after you have travelled all the way up to the palm. Ultimately you will reach to the peak of any of the fingers. The variation of the peaks depends on the road you choose. THE Acetic acid is just  a minor  hurdle or-put it this way-a blessing of observation during your journey. Hence a bonus to identify the wolf in the herd, not by face but by pattern. Therefore difficult, but not impossible.


P.S. nothing personal here. Traits of acetic acid mentioned are factual, resemblance with any individual being is accidental and purely unintentional. CIAO! ^_^

Time and Pressure

Time and pressure, two most important factors in physics of materials. Remember how we always used to have 'under standard pressure' or 'when the time approaches zero' in our assumptions while making experiments. These were the ideal conditions. And remember that ideal conditions hardly ever take place in this world, and that is what Jannah is for. We Muslims believe this world is a test and the real life is the life hereafter. That life will be rewarded upon our deeds here.

We are given time and we are put under pressure every now and then by ALLAH. Muslims call it test. You are to perform your best, have faith that tomorrow would be wonderful and above all, believe that HE who has put you into this will surely never make your patience and hardships go into vain. Just hold on a little tighter, a better tomorrow is guaranteed for those who do not lose hope and faith.

ALLAH transforms sand into pearls, coal into diamonds, caterpillar into butterflies using time and pressure. Do not worry, HE is probably working on you too.